What is an End of Life Doula?

Here’s an article that gives a peek into the work. Doulas offer comfort and guidance to the dying and their loved ones. There’s no need to fear contacting your local doula. Sometimes just talking can help a caregiver or person relax, knowing that they are not alone.

How do I know when to contact you?

Whenever you need to talk about your or your loved one’s approach to end of life. To talk about this doesn’t mean you’re giving up. On the contrary, this is your opportunity to steer these last years, months, or weeks to achieve what you want this time to look like.

My mom lives in Athens, she’s dying, and I cannot get there to be with her. Can you help me?

Most certainly. I can accompany your mom through her last days as if she were my loved one. We can talk about whatever she wants and I can hold her hand so she’s not alone. This service is quite an honor to provide.

Do you do personal care? Like bathing and changing?

I do not, however I can help in daily life in other ways. I do provide cooking services for clients and families that are feeling overwhelmed with high levels of responsibility associated with intensive home care. With respect to the function of an End of Life Doula, this process is more about the emotional well-being of the client and family. I can help people to talk through feelings and wishes as they approach the dying process, set up space for maximum peace and comfort, and be present for the client as they pass away. All of these things are developed specifically for each individual as they are needed.

I feel like I just need to talk through the process and possibilities of helping my dad in his last days. Are you available as a consultant, if that makes sense?

It makes total sense. All of us are built with the skills to care for our loved ones as they approach their end. We’ve been doing it for eons and you are totally able to do it now. I understand the need to check in or touch base with a sounding board to make sure you are on the right path. I absolutely can help you with that.